I only found out last year how bad his problem was and that he was taking it everyday... before that I was convinced he was an alcoholic.
He won't stop drinking, he's said that to me, he said it's what he enjoys,
We have two young children together
I want him so bad to just stop
he's told you he plans to keep using coke, and has no intentions of stopping drinking. what does that SAY about HIS priorities? they certainly aren't you or the children. and since he won't put the kids best interests as his priority, you as their only other parent HAVE TO.
worry less about HIM and more about what is best for you and the kids. living with a coke head isn't good for anyone. and being financially dependent on a coke addict is a recipe for disaster. as it is, he used LAST NITE. instead of being home with you and the chlldren which is what FATHERS DO, he was out partying it up, doing lines and all that goes along with that...........