Thanks Dee. I worked out after I'd posted that people were referring to possible trolling. It didn't occur to me at first because the nature of, and care in my post seems to make that unlikely to most right-minded folks.
Anyway, again, thanks. I'm going to carry on being 25% as drunk as I usually am and keep you updated.
(It already sucks!
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Posting here because I can't send PMs.