H- I agree that two days isn't long enough for her "new" track record to prove anything. If she is feeling desperate for the relationship and is contacting your family, how healthy is her thinking? I have been on the opposite end myself these days. My ex ABF is very much sticking to no contact and regardless of any response or nonresponse, I am hurting. I realized yesterday that I have been relying too much on his family for support as they try to reason out understanding of his problems. Try not to make it more difficult for anyone by engaging with her and try to help your family move away from it to- that would be my suggestion. If she is really trying to get healthy, then she needs to put her entire focus on that.