Good to hear from you Dave,
Yeah, I have to say, that the thought of going out is pretty scary. I know it is hard to get back in since I've been through that myself. Took me years to get back after my first time in the program. That is something to be scared of! Good luck trying to help your friend. I'm sure you know that what you will be doing is really 12th step work. You're lucky to have a chance to help someone that way. Bet that will feel pretty good if it happens.