I have a horrible suspicion that he has been thinking that if he does detox he can come home. I've never said that and his sister and one of his very bets friends who is a RA has also said the same to him.
I'm very anxious, about going in. He rang to ask me for insurance details before and has said he is also anxious about me coming in there...says its not a nice place to be. He's organised the doctor to call me this afternoon to discuss things from a treatment perspective and has asked the dr to be totally 'candid' with me (Australia has very strict laws about this that requires explicit permissions about what medical personnel can share).
I'm probably quacking myself here....but that is vaguely positive isn't it?
I'm not replacing words with the need for action, and I'm sure I am making BTDT's roll their eyes.....but this is new for me, as I've said he's never given me any reason to have any hope at all....always been clear that he's not interested in recovery. So the fact that he says he is now....is....new.