Chic...that you say he has broken the door...again....is sign enough of why he needs to go. I agree, you should not be terrorized in your home. We had an ipad, I like it b/c it is just like my phone so I know how to use it. I am sure there are tons of tablets that are great.
I am so sorry you have to deal with him and with this. I cannot even imagine. We are here for you....always.
XXX