Got through it just fine, thank you everyone again for your helpful posts! There was that awkward moment of cleaning up half-finished wine glasses (still baffles me how people do that!) but my husband polished those off.
Otherwise, I'd dump them. I wish my husband was on the same page with me, but at least he isn't interfering with my sobriety, and I have to do this for myself. From my own experience, if I were pushed to quit I'd just resent it.
So alcohol off the menu or BYOB from now on, definitely doable!