Soberlicious knows the stuff it appears to me..wonderful writings.
I live in a Buddhist country (will 95% Buddhist) and have a Buddhist wife too. But it's be who likes to hang out at the temples...just sit and be...it's so nice. Not sure all the going ons in the Temples....it's not a religion so I just go with the flow and what feels good. Not ever sure what to do at the Temple...so like I say...just sit and be peaceful.