Originally Posted by
Ready2beSober 
Thanks everyone. Im not one of those girls, begging this dude to be sober.. honestly I dont give a ****. Either be here for me and your kids or dont! I was raised by an alcoholic father, who gave me alcohol and meth at 14.. that was my dad.. I can handle "this guy" I was just venting, and thinking outloud. I know I cant change him.
I never got that from your post. What I got was your concern for yourself and family. VALID. What I sensed was the booze around certainly doesn't make for easy new sobriety..as in yours. You are also wondering if you should get up and bail. Tough decisions abound.
People quit drinking around drinkers or quit smoking around smokers. Do you think you have it in you to do this for yourself? Alternatively, do you have anywhere you could go and stay...like family or a friends to let him know you mean business here?
You may not be able to control anyone else...but you sure as hell don't have to put up with it either!