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Sparky, I like your concept of the 5 and 5. I think that's spot-on. My husband is definitely in the top 5% of entertaining. I like the unfolded product, but sometimes, as the saying goes, you don't want to see how the sausage is made! High stress in the hours leading up to the arrival of guests.
Even though I am not in the top 5% of most things, I do endeavor to give my very best to whatever I do. It is good for me, and I consider it a humble offering to God.