Originally Posted by
desypete 
so in other words you make selfish judgements on people
Not really. I answer their questions to the best of my ability when asked.
If someone asks me to take them through the steps, I never say no. It is not my job to tell people what to do. It is, however, my job to carry the message of AA and to be honest in all my affairs, including answering a newcomer's questions.
IMO, we underestimate addiction. It kills. This is life or death. If someone wants to use another method, more power to them. AA is not for everyone. It just isn't.