LS, 9 months - awesome!!!!
Whodey, I have given the funeral a thought or two over the years, too. I don't want any good thing that I have done to be negated by the fact that I was an active alcoholic. "DD raised a lovely family, BUT she was a raging alcoholic." Or, "DESPITE the fact that DD was a destructive alcoholic who drank herself to death, she was kind of nice, OTHERWISE." LOL