Originally Posted by amy55

I didn't respond previously because you said you weren't in an abusive relationship. Mine was extremely abusive, and I was to the point that I didn't care if he drank, just stop abusing me. (lol) Wouldn't you consider going through all that money financial abuse though? Is he really there for you when he is drinking and drugging? Do you feel emotionally connected to him at those times, or do you sometimes feel that you don't even exist in his eyes? Do you sometimes feel lonelier when he is around, then when you are alone?