Originally Posted by
m1k3 
You are no more responsible for his recovery than I am. His recovery does not depend you who your friends are, who you hang out with, who you talk to and what you talk about. His recovery depends on him and him alone.
So, you can put those bags down, they aren't yours to carry, and figure out what type of life you want.
Your friend,
Well said!!
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Where I was talking of "oversharing" is from my own learning of what's appropriate for me -- what he thinks of it isn't any of my business!
I'm learning how to socialize. Who and when to share pieces of myself with. It's a learning process and really good for me. The more I do this, the better I get at opening my heart and making connections with others.