Happens to me all the time! Although my kids ate 19 and 22, (and 43) on the weekends I am doing laundry, cleaning and running eronds while 22 is in the basemen playing computer games, 19 is in his room playing guitar or off with his buddies, and AH is on the couch watching TV! But you know what I try to think of? I was on my own for 3 years when we were devorced, and sometimes I missed all that. (except the AH on the couch) I understand that! He should have helped you.