I don't have advice but would like to express support. It's a tough situation and i can see where you'd be tempted to try and help. Sometimes well intentioned actions aren't well taken-especially by potentially explosive young girls in love. You could face anger rather than thanks.
My bf has friends who are on Facebook with his H AD-they hesitantly once brought up a concern to my bf as he is not on Facebook. i am but not friends with his AD. We only responded with bafflement and a change of subject since my bf chooses to believe that every thing is fine.
