i guess i really didn't mean feeling sorry for yourself as feeling like the "only" one doing anything. i didn't do squat this week - i mean the absolute bare necessities. mine will empty or run the dishwasher sometimes, do some laundry occasionally, just little things and it's like i have to recognize it as something great - he's home all day, everyday doing nothing else - big deal! but i usually will tell him thank you so much for doing such & such.
emily - your last comment sent me chuckling!! thank you for a bright spot in my day.
countdown - 1 more day, 1 more day!!!