She went out of her way to tell me that she doesn't believe in divorce, because she is a zealot Catholic, but she believes AH should divorce me because the way I was treating him wasn't right (kicking him out of our home because he was getting black out drunk, fleeing our home with our girls because he was blackout drunk.) That everything he was doing was my fault and that I'm a bad person. This was right after I had baby DD. When AH was blackout drunk and grabbed my arm, it was my fault, according to her.
Then AH told her to appologize and she said she was sorry that what she said had upset me. BAHAHAHA Well played, evil witch. The ultimate backhanded apology. Now she's acting as if I don't exist and it's just AH and our kids. I can't control her access to AH but I can control her access to my children. She can treat AH like he's 33 going on 12 as long as he wants to allow her to do so. I have no interest in allowing her in my or my kids' lives though.