I understand what DD is saying, and relapses should not be taking lightly, it's accountability. For me personally, I drank this weekend but I don't consider it a relapse because I have yet to commit to sobriety.
Where I am right now is trying not to drink, exploring my life sober more and hopefully commit to that life choice and SR is how I am starting that road.
Relapses should be taken as seriously as the commitment to be sober.