DD - my husband is of the same mindset as yours. And I know he misses "fun Cindy" - heck I miss her too sometimes. But the person I am today is so much more at peace and I have a healthy outlook on things. I am just not willing to trade all that for a night of "fun." I say fun but I know how it would actually turn out. The reality of the situation is that I would drink too much, if I didn't make a total a$$ out of myself that night I would surely wake up with a rocking hangover. No thanks!