Don't know what happened to my last posting, but basically....no, my life is NOT boring. Having made it to step mom's it is OBVIOUS that her hubby is STILL USING. Sleeps ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, and of course, she is in total denial. Totally "forgot", that she told me just to "get here and I will help you in any way I can"...now. She insists that I was not coming just for her, and she told me that there would be no car for me to use when here. SO....bottom line, I am now paying total cost of rental car for entire stay.
THEN, yesterday, I told her that he is still using! She asked me to "search"...having had so much experience in this with my daughter, sad to admit. I did. I found, for starters, HIDDEN vicodin, pot, a top to a bottle with tar residue, q-tips, etc, etc. SHE WENT NUTS! Had a reason for everything.....so I almost left. He was right there and did not say a word. Things calmed down and I stayed over night and we will see what happens today....
