I have something called "FREE WILL"...which means I get to say NO to anything at anytime to anyone for any reason.
Just becuase I marry a man does not make me his prostitute and must serve him sexually.
Today, I say what I mean,
I mean what I say.
And if people do not respect my response of "No", thats THEIR problem. Not mine.
I love myself THATTTTTTTTTTT much, to stand up for myself.
Thank god, and thank Al-Anon for THAT!