Im surprised your husbands rehab doesn’t offer anything for family members. Ive found its very common now for rehabs to offer services such as family group meetings, intensive 3-4 day sessions for family, individual therapy for family members, etc. My husband’s rehab even had marriage counseling as part of his official treatment. I really wish they would all offer these things…. my therapist pointed me in the direction of Community Reinforcement and Family Training (craft). I have been using this program on my own and through support from Smart Recovery. Im happy to hear your naranon meeting was helpful. Its really great your reaching out for support; I hope things look brighter soon.