(((((chicory)))) I am so sorry for this. I can only imagine the turmoil you must be in. I wish I had some words of wisdoms. I don't. I'm grateful you've got the appointment on
Wednesday. Keep breathing until then. It sounds like your son is having a tantrum.
When I was visiting with my brother, I was listening to his recollection of things. It sure was far from the reality that I remember. I don't think he knows how bad he was. Doesn't remember, maybe. His timeline was sure off. Blaming this one and that one. I wasn't around so much so maybe I'm wrong.
I do know youre taking care of business. Be as calm as you can be, there's nothing to be argued. Continue with your plan, it's a good one. Take care of you. You deserve a peaceful life.
Much much love from Lenina