Thanks so much for your quick replies.
I think i was getting myself into a panic- im not sleeping and am soooo tired its unreal. Also we are planning on telling the kids tonight and its all getting REAL and abit overwheming.
Problem is me like most partners remember the nice person and not the person lying, stealing and generally treating me like sh!t person and i guess when hes sober i see a glimp of the nice person.
Kimmieh, perfect advice - thank you! Thats exactly what i need to keep in my head.
Thing is do i tell thekids while feeling so emotional or wait until i feel stronger and less likely to cry? *when hes herei feel emtional but when hes not i feel okish- is this even normal??