hankfrank - if she is not talking but expressed willingness to go to marriage counseling this is a great sign if saving your marriage is a priority for you right now. The hard reality is that maintaining addictions and addictive behaviors can be incredibly damaging for those around us, as they inevitable feed themselves first and take priority over others, always. Your wife is entitled to her feelings regarding your interactions.
Are you sober right now? What have you been doing to promote sobriety and improve your situation?
Hang in there. Drinking will just slam dunk the situation into the *******, for sure. Not a good place to go.
