Originally Posted by
bland123 
I have decided that I will not allow alcohol to be the defining attribute of my life.
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I so hope that you always remember these words. There were times in early recovery when I thought that alcoholic was the only attribute my family and friends would remember about me. Now, thankfully, I am so much more.
I'm not sure about the loneliness issue. Before my drinking days, I did lots of socializing and being out there. I think that I was afraid of facing myself. In my recovery, I find that I need alone time and I don't do well without it.
I'm glad you found us, and have faith that you can do this.