Luckily I don't live with him and wouldn't. It's just hurtful I guess to be treated with lack of respect. But yes I have made changes in my life. I've pushed my training for a better job and looking after me and the kids first. I think it's more of a case for me that he seems to be enjoying himself and I'm sitting frightened about the birth of our daughter and trying to juggle everything else as well as hormones.