Originally Posted by
zoso77 
Please, do not turn your anger inward. I understand that you're angry, and you have every right to be angry at the situation you find yourself in. But when you start beating yourself up, that doesn't and will never help. What's important at this moment is understanding what you're up against so that you can make the best decisions going forward, both for you and your children.
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Zozo has said what I was thinking
Do not be manipulated by someone whose word means nothing.
My granddaddy told me when I was very young, you have two things of value in this life, your name and your word, if your word is no good, then neither is your name. So why would you value yourself (your name) based on the no good word of him?
You are more, you deserve more.