((Chicory)) You did it!! When we go outside our comfort zone ...it is scary! I'm so proud of you.
I wouldn't engage after your point is made. Nothing else to discuss except the appointment time and the consequences if he doesn't follow through. Put on some headphones and tune him out. Whatever he says at this point will be to hurt you for upsetting his world.
You deserve CAKE and lots of it!! Sending you great big hugs!! Well done sweet Chicory, Well Done!!