This isn't a bare your soul kind of place. YOU lead the discussion about you.
I would suggest that you join the current new member group: Class of July 2014
It really helps to have a "home" and a group as a starting point. It's a great source of support. Then you can branch out to other areas.
There's 137000+ registed members here. 490 on line right now. Every technique for recovery(short of deals with the devil) is up for discussion. Dive in and congratulations on 31 days.