He doesn't want me to go out and do either of those, work or school?
My AH gets nervous and acts up when I have to leave the house for any real length of time. What do you think?
Hopeful's right; what you describe is really a form of abuse. I know you're scared and I don't blame you, but I would do as Hopeful says; call a DV hotline and see what your options are.
Keep us in the loop, OK?