Oh, yes! I agree that you're going to need to leave,......SOMEDAY....but maybe since you stayed here, last night and today and it obviously infuriated him, you ought to see how he is when you return. Maybe if you keep standing up for yourself, HE WILL CHANGE. Your son doesn't really want to switch schools, now, he'll be a junior this year. What about all of his friends. Maybe you can TOUGH IT OUT, just a couple years longer; Go back to school, Get a job, try making some friends yourself. If things get REALLY bad though, you can ALLWAYS come stay with Mommy