dandy is right crushed--you are a human being and need to be able to express your feelings and have them listened to.
Yelling at you, calling you names, and apologizing is not communication.
You also haven't commented on the point that this will get worse, far worse, if you do choose to ignore it.
I'm an alcoholic myself and I can tell you she won't be "functioning" much longer if allowed to drink unchecked. Sorry to say it
