For me, everything changed in my sobriety. For me as well, my relationship with my kids is better, but with my bf, not so much. He still drinks too. Sobriety for me is about learning to get what I need from sober people and sober places....places that people understand me. Check out the Friends and Family link here on SR....lots of great information. You are early in your recovery. Lots of change happening. Just sit with it and observe and reflect on it without being to hard on yourself or others. Congrats on your 10 days!