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Old 06-30-2014, 07:18 AM
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NewFighter
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Finding Spouse Annoying

My husband and I have been married almost 10 years. We have always drank together, but he is able to stop where asI drink until wasted and looked forward to drinking by myself as it seemed like it was "me time". Time where no one needed (of course they did need) anything from me. (very selfish) I am on my 10th day in a row sober and will be seeing a psyh. for the first time this afternoon.

The relationship with my two young sons sober is so rewarding now that I have the time and energy to be the mom I want to be, but I am finding time with my husband for lack of a better word, annoying, and frankly lifeless. I know I sound like a @#$%^%

He is a wonderful man, and father. I feel guilty for feeling this way.

I would love some advice on how you have transitioned your relationship in sobriety?
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