Originally Posted by
Crushedjd 
my counselor and everyone I speak to says the affair was because of the drink
My Boys and I plan to sit with her Tuesday night and let her know we're there to help support her, but she has a drinking problem
in no way do I trust in that counselor
must be new age counseling
because what your wife did was not right under any circumstances
when you and the boys meet with her
be not afraid to show some true Tough Love (as needed)
Mountainman