Thank you so much
WOW Thank you all so much for your replies and your suggestions .. i only wish i had found this forum sooner but thank God i'm here now .. the things you have suggested sound Truly helpful and i am feeling better about things already. I am emailing him at his friends house where he spent the night last night and giving him that list of places in north carolina where he can get help and also suggesting the Salvation Army ..i appreciated your kind words of comfort and it helps to know that others have and are going through the same things as we are. God Bless You all ty so much. :hugehug