thank you all. It so wonderful to log on here and see hands reaching for mine. and gentle hugs making me feel like I can do this!
I know I can. I just need to keep my eyes open. Its like they glaze over at the enormity of it all.
Ann, thank you for sharing this part of your story. I know it was so painful for you. I am glad to know that the things you leaned on really helped. I will keep moving forward, and try to turn over each rock.
The written list in in my plans. I am off tomorrow, I should be able to spend some time, formulating a plan. I know he would not be able to smoothly get names to places of help. He could barely get his dentists office directions, he gets so frustrated! Its strange. he can do anything with his computer, anything. but get him to call and ask for times, appts, or directions or details... he hates doing it, and just tries to fly by the seat of his pants. sets his self up for failure.
thanks again, everyone. You are true friends. xoxoxo
chic