Fandy, I thought my cats were a pain, knocking at my door, in the am... but soft skin pinchers, ouch!
thanks.. I have asked my girls to help me.. to support me, and help me to think things through. they are more than happy to. things are getting a bit more clear, with some thinking on them.
I deserve my home to be at least peaceful, and for him to be doing all he can to help his self and to do his share. I should not feel guilty. I have the right to expect my home to be free from drugs. and I am getting stronger, at least for today
daughter is smart about internet/appliances. we are discussing options there too. I told son that I am going to be shutting internet off, but told him I would be doing it if he brought pot into my home. I am rethinking that. think it needs to be off, no matter what. he will be unable to control his self with it on. he has shown that. he has no respect for anyone else. time he learned that others matter too.
love and hgus, and thanks for the support! off to work for me:[
chicory