Thank you Kittycat3
I have been going over and over in my mind today, of what I need to say. I have an idea, but want it to make sense.
I could not help myself today, as I asked him if he could take out the trash THIS WEEK. I realize from his words that he is in a totally selfish place.
Went online to read about adult children at home. and many people mentioned the sorts of things I am living with.
He talks in circles, manipulation, just rude avoidance type answers. like asking me if I am just looking for things to fight about today, because of a mood? Or like "I am not going to let you get to me today, I am going to ignore your mood"......
I am flabbergasted. He is either nuts, or the worlds biggest azzh**e! No, wait, that title is held by his dad
and heck, maybe he is just a chip off the old shyteblock, add to that alcoholism and whatever else.
I am even more determined.