Well if you want a direct answer, yes, you have a problem, especially given how you have come here, posted your concerns and then minimized the problem with lots of ifs and buts. You can wait, like me, until you have drunk and pissed your life away or you can decide to do something about it now and live a happier and more productive life than the average boozer ever does. Your choice - and lots of support to be had here!
Nothing personal - I hate alcoholism with a vengeance these days. I have a lot of time for alcoholics though!