When I need to make a decision, I MUST turn it completely and totally over to God. Then...I need to do the nest right thing in my life. I do the footwork, God does the miracles. Thats the agreement I made when I chose recovery.
God provides the clarity to me when the time is right. I MUST be receptive to the response, I MUST be open to the channels in which God speaks to me. Thru prayer, meditation, my support group etc.
I dont get to tell God how to deliver the message (Thru the AH or anyone else), I dont get to tell him when to deliver the message...thats called controlling, er Self-will. I turn it over, do the footwork in my life and be receptive to his will for me.
As for your AH's "talk"....
Talking the talk isnt the same as walking the talk. He says he;s gonna do all the right things by the kids.....why dont you wait to see if he starts walking the talkin', before making a decision?
Actions speak louder than words,,,,and my actions by turning it over are the ones that matter to my higher power.
Peace
