Chic i have not read all the responses, just your post. Im wondering if your state has anything like ours here in MO. Its called Vocational Rehab. While they help the blind, they also help those w other disabilities, including assistance in diagnosis. My XAH went to them. He has depression and anxiety and possibly a form of Asbergers. They gave him tests to see what sort of work would be fitting for him and then sent him to several places to try out a few different jobs. He did get a couple of different offers. I know they also help w housing and additional schooling in some situations.
You may look into it in your state. The caseworker was great and very understanding.
I cannot imagine the anxiety all of this has to cause you. You deserve a break and some peace.
Hugs my friend...