Thanks everyone for your thoughtful ideas and support. and the prayers.. I believe in prayer, very much.
a man came in at work and asked me if I had anyone who needed prayer, and I said my son. He prayed right then and there.
I shall use all this positive support, and go forward. praying myself for direction and so thankful for the support here.
My granddaughter is still here. I have the weekend to work out a written plan. I like that Idea Fandy.
You know, it must be depressing in itself, when others have given up on expecting normal behavior from you. I am so guilty here, and I am grieved at the lack of wisdom in myself.
love and hugs.