Welcome sorcharune. It sounds like you found out the hard way what you feared in the first sentence of your post. Just like we alcoholics can deny all day long that we have a problem, we can ignore others problems or somehow think we can magically cure them. I find myself sometimes even here on SR becoming overconfident or that I know better than someone else how they should go about fixing their problem, but usually i can stop myself before I get in to deep. I hope you can move on and find someone who is worthy of your love an attention, because you deserve it.