Hi confused. I struggled through the no contact thing. It's so hard at first but it does get easier, I promise. Alcoholics are full of broken promises. Your daughter is right saying it's his loss. You are making huge progress. Remember progress not perfection is the key. As much as you wanted to call him and react to his selfishness and broken promises you didn't because you knew what would happen. When we know better, we do better. Maybe when he breaks his promise to see your daughter, you and her go out to lunch or shop or watch a movie together? I know it's hurtful but it's on him. Keep taking care of you.