I do agree, chicory that a re-evaluation might be a good idea because there could also be other possibilities---like asberger's (sp?) syndrome, in addition to ADHD---I don't have the advantage of knowing more than you have written---- but, there does seem like there might be other things going on. A diagnosis would make it so much easier to get help.
Maybe the services of a mental health social worker could help to guide you, right now.
I, myself, know how hard this is to go alone. f
dandylion