Cheating in AA
My boyfriend of over a year, who has relapsed several times with crack/cocaine, has cheated multiple times, one of which was with a woman in AA about 4 months ago. I found over a text message and ended the relationship. He managed to weasel his way back into my life about a month or so later of not taking his calls etc; I ended up taking him back because I do truly love him. Shortly after he had relapsed again, and now he is taking his sobriety serious. He moved in with his sponsor across town, and started going to another meeting close by to where he lives. He is not happy with the meeting and wants to go back to the old meeting he has been going to for years, which in my opinion, hasn't worked since he has relapsed during these meetings. His sponsor said he should go back to that meeting, but I am having a HUGE problem with the fact that the girl he cheated with attends. I asked him to find another meeting (there are many here in town) and he REFUSES to do so. I am about to pull the plug on the relationship, but I needed advice about this if I am making the right moved, or if I am just being unreasonable. His past history leads me to believe that he could in fact jump right back in to with her, and I will be left more hurt than ever. This has been an extremely difficult year, and I am about to quit the roller coaster ride. Advice anyone?