Originally Posted by
Vanduara 
I feel that until I get to know myself again, I can't make big life decisions like giving up drinking completely.
Despite the fact I am pro sobriety as a means to really and truly know yourself, I cannot fault the notion that you must make both decisions for you..and no other.
Sigh...personally, I only wish I had a man, such as you describe, that I could find peace and a more secure sobriety with